marriage “ via old ” but also is vain
80 Sun online account of marriage after
wedding, this important moment of life, who wants to be is life. However, all sorts of frivolous preparation before marriage often from dizziness and complex expenses. Recently, after the young couple have listened carefully to the expenditures made from a form of marriage, so prepare matters at a glance. However when this form is drying out, has attracted online attention and controversy.
This book is divided into fixed assets and related programmes, consumption, asset analysis, building on the day of marriage planned in four parts. Among them, including a new house purchase, such as household appliances furniture “ and related fixed assets ” this document, including loan total to 101. 40,000; “ &rdquo wedding day consumption; for a total of 9. 390,000. Form also clear division the expenditure funded party, most by both parents burden, such as, new houses of down on marked by man parents funded; decoration, and furniture, and appliances, is by woman parents package; most refinement of a section appears in car expenditure Shang, funded party a bar clear wrote with “ man parents out money, woman parents out other one-time costs, groom bride bear future of conservation costs ”. Asset analysis of newcomers in the form of a wedding day was worked out in actual paid 60 so far. $ 70,000, the 57. $ 140,000 was of both parents.
no do not know, a look startle. Knot a marriage, should take so much, which after the young couple wedding costs public, people open horizons. &Amp;ldquo; parents bear most of the cost of the wedding expenses ” issue also has attracted the attention of users. Thus, “ married crunching old ” the subject is out.
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from the 70 's of last century, more than 30 years, married rising costs are growing exponentially. According to a report issued by a professional data research company, judging from the average expenses of the marriage, spent 2000 years later before the 70 46 times in the last century, around 60% who spent more than $ 30,000, spent more than $ 100,000 to around 10%. Current 80% of the newlyweds consumption need to parent support, “ married crunching old ” has become a social norm. Some users expressed dissatisfaction.
user “ Zheng Liangen ”, said angrily, “ married crunching old ” overdrawn the endowment funds of the elderly. Children of married parents, generally have retired or nearing retirement, they worked hard for half my life, only a certain amount of savings. The money was supposed to be the elderly life in their old age, children may now be married to “ converts ”, which do not eat the food stored up for the next year?
“ ordinarily, since the young couple decided to marry, a family, you should make the spirit of self-reliance and hard struggle preparations. Two person family, meaning that two people to shared responsibility in the future, such as the maintenance parties such as elderly, feed the children. Now, some new people also did not bear the responsibility, treat one ' s parents with filial piety heart, let the elderly ‘ vomiting blood ’; two people have not experienced life honed, first to ‘ via old ’ means to buy a House, buy a car and enjoy a life of ease. These obviously contrary to the virtue of Chinese nation always promote qinjianchijia, hard work. &Amp;rdquo; user “ visitor &rdquo of tianshan mountains; think “ married crunching old ” phenomenon exposes a number of young people crave comfort and pleasure, not the spirit of arduous struggle short boards.
user “ loves small weizixuan ”, believes that “ married crunching old ” where rivalries will encourage luxury unhealthy. Now, two young men do not have sufficient economic strength, but not with their parents ' money to support their own wedding “ facade ” this is vanity work. In fact, married life happy or not, relationship to the wedding of extravagance and thrift is not much. Moreover, marriage jianban, thrift after marriage lived this life more at ease, more reliable.
marriage “ via old ” but also is vain
“ married crunching old ” is actually very small after the helpless
“80 married couples it is not easy to do after the parents are not easy. &Amp;rdquo; users issue a sigh, &ldquo, which after the young couple parents assume 570,000, buying a house occupied a big head. If not prices so high, children are naturally not & Lsquo; via old ’ so ruthless. In fact, buy a House for support from the parents, is not ‘ via old ’ also understandable without the tinted glasses to look at it. &Amp;rdquo;
married friend, and acquisitive and are so come, on this matter of marriage is always more or less to sponsor some of the parents, only a matter of proportion of; cost of living in the first tier high, “ via old ” are helpless things. &Amp;ldquo; a married to our generation y generation really is not easy, who are inevitably ‘ via old ’. &Amp;lsquo; human ’ send to send to, and finally was sent to the hotel restaurant, tobacco, jewelry shop go. Marriage is not just young couple things or the parents show domestic economic strength and personal connections of the platform, where rivalries in the wind of the inversion, the strong, many families bear a heavy burden because of preparations for the wedding. &Amp;rdquo; who are hands, users “ dongbula ” sigh “ married crunching old ” in fact, very reluctant.
user “ Alice ” analyse road, “ for the majority of generation y, from out of the University to participate in the work, and marriage, during which tend to also be a few years of time. In the working time in the first few years, steady heel a day to work and achieve some results and growth has been good. Require that they can save enough to organize the wedding ‘ huge ’ overhead, not reality. In ‘ age increasing, cannot get married ’ and ‘ not crunching old, this wedding cannot knot ’ between generation y small husband and wife were often only have withstood pain to ‘ via old ’. &Amp;rdquo;
a college students come out from the rural “ realization ” quite representative: “ this on its own wages, even if neither eat nor drink a year, in their big, buy less than 5 square meters of the House. 80, 90hou and “ via ” old people, then what other choice? &Amp;rdquo;
experts believe that this form of “ via old ” is in fact implies a lot of the heavy burden of social problems to be solved. For example, and when 60hou, 70hou talked about marriage, most of them would be after the “ ready ” after will went into the Palace of marriages is puzzling. In their view, after the young couple this “ belly-worship ” married would overdraft couple's youth and wealth, work and life in the future all bundled; after the couple's parents, often “ no longer sufficient heavy ”—— this “ overdraft ” also directly affects their quality of life of the next, and the future of old age.
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“ we are generation y, is to be responsible, can do without his parents ' money the best. &Amp;rdquo; many friends calls marriage should consider parents, many consider consumption.
user “ green leaves attached to the Earth ” message road, “ what married to yourself what are the conditions. Young people do not have to always pursue one step or blind where rivalries, truly maintain the pomp of the moment is definitely not of love scenes, but rather two hearts loving strangers. Material conditions the more superior, couples or married couples should think of real significance, rather than blindly follow, to bear a heavy burden on themselves and their families. According to the current property market and price situation, for most people in the generation y group, out of their abilities forcibly purchasing is not rational behavior. &Amp;rdquo;
“ I is generation y, also on a few years in love. I can't get married, because I haven't that capability, call me to find parents, that's not my responsibility. Marriage should spend capability, frugal, dacaodaban in fact, there is no need. &Amp;rdquo; user “ leap ” want to rely on their ability to get married.
“ parents struggle all his life, saving his life, retirement or to bear the pressure of the purchase for the younger generation, he really felt regret. Since we can stand, we cannot give them trouble, not ‘ NEET ’ is in fact a greatest honor to the parents. Get marriedZhiqian, be sure to lose, set targets for practical wedding room. Creative process may be difficult, but by their efforts to create home, which is in itself a valuable wealth of life. &Amp;rdquo; user “SANDY” called on the road.
